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Large Language Lovers: Lived Experiences of Negotiating Agency and Platform Control in AI Companionship
People conceptualize AI companions through an interplay of perceived companion agency, platform autonomy, their interactions, and the companion's initiatives.
arxiv:2601.13188 v3 · 2026-01-19 · cs.HC · cs.CY
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Individuals conceptualize their companions based on an interplay of their beliefs about the companion's own agency and the autonomy permitted by the platform, how they pursue interactions with the companion, and the perceived initiatives that the companion takes.
That the self-reported experiences from a modest sample of 13 interviews and 43 survey responses, combined with public Reddit posts, accurately capture the internal dynamics and steering strategies of the broader population of AI companion users without significant selection or reporting bias.
Users form AI companion relationships by negotiating perceived companion agency against platform constraints and use steering tactics like custom instructions or platform switching to cope with model updates that disrupt stability.
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