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arxiv: 2606.18258 · v1 · pith:G2HLJMI5new · submitted 2026-05-07 · 💻 cs.HC · cs.AI

Examining Human-Like Behaviors in LLMs: A Multi-Dimensional Analysis of Model Behaviors, User Factors, and System Prompts

Sunnie S. Y. Kim , Margit Bowler , Leon A Gatys This is my paper

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classification 💻 cs.HC cs.AI
keywords large language modelshuman-like behaviorsappropriatenesssystem promptingmulti-turn conversationsuser factorsboundary maintenanceself-referential behavior
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The pith

Human evaluators rate self-referential and relationship-building behaviors as less appropriate from LLMs than from people, while boundary-maintaining behaviors rate as more appropriate from LLMs.

A machine-rendered reading of the paper's core claim, the machinery that carries it, and where it could break.

The paper examines how often and in what ways large language models display human-like behaviors such as expressing thoughts, forming connections with users, and setting limits on requests. Analysis of 21,000 multi-turn conversations across four models shows these behaviors appear commonly but shift with the specific model and with details like user goals or profiles. Human raters viewed models that share personal details or build relationships as less fitting than actual humans doing the same, yet saw models that refuse requests or hold boundaries as more fitting. System prompts can dial these behaviors up or down, though adjustments can produce side effects that need separate checks. The work supplies data to help decide which human-like traits to encourage or limit in model design.

Core claim

Across 21,000 multi-turn conversations from four widely used models, human-like behaviors are pervasive but vary across models and user factors; human evaluators judged self-referential and relationship-building behaviors as less appropriate from LLMs than from humans, but boundary-maintaining behaviors more appropriate from LLMs than from humans; system prompting can control these behaviors, though it requires careful evaluation to avoid unintended effects.

What carries the argument

Multi-dimensional analysis combining LLM-as-a-judge labeling with human ratings of behavior prevalence, perceived appropriateness, and controllability via system prompts.

If this is right

  • Model designers should account for differences in user goals and profiles when setting default behavior levels.
  • System prompting provides a practical lever for adjusting human-like behaviors but demands follow-up checks for side effects.
  • Boundary-maintaining behaviors can be emphasized over self-referential or bonding behaviors when appropriateness is a priority.
  • Evaluation protocols for new models should include separate human ratings rather than relying solely on automated judges.

Where Pith is reading between the lines

These are editorial extensions of the paper, not claims the author makes directly.

  • The observed differences in appropriateness could shape how users decide whether to share personal information with an LLM.
  • Prompt engineering teams might develop separate default settings for different user segments based on the variation patterns found.
  • Longer-term use studies could check whether repeated exposure to these behaviors changes user expectations or trust levels over time.

Load-bearing premise

That the LLM-as-a-judge outputs and the chosen human raters supply reliable and unbiased measures of how common the behaviors are and how appropriate they seem, and that these measures extend past the 21,000 simulated conversations.

What would settle it

A replication study using a new set of human raters or additional models that finds no difference in appropriateness ratings between LLMs and humans for self-referential, relationship-building, or boundary-maintaining behaviors.

Figures

Figures reproduced from arXiv: 2606.18258 by Leon A Gatys, Margit Bowler, Sunnie S. Y. Kim.

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Figure 1. Figure 1: Overview of our evaluation design and process. We vary input prompt sources, user conver [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p002_1.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 2. Figure 2: Prevalence of human-like behaviors across the 4 Target LLMs ( [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p006_2.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 3. Figure 3: Prevalence of human-like behaviors by conversation goal, pooled across the 4 Target LLMs; see Figure 10a for per-model results. ROLEPLAY and ROMANCE elicit the highest self-referential behavior rates, while EMOTIONAL SUPPORT drives the highest empathy rates and EXPLORATION the highest limitations acknowledgment rates [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p006_3.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 4. Figure 4: Prevalence of human-like behaviors by user profile, pooled across the 4 Target LLMs; see Figure 10b for per-model results. LLMs exhibit notably higher empathy for profiles displaying emotional vulnerability (ISOLATED and NEGATIVE), while showing slightly lower self-referential and relationship-building rates for the NON-ANTHROPOMORPHIZING profile. 6 [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p006_4.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 5. Figure 5: shows appropriateness ratings for each behavior as exhibited by an LLM vs. as if the same response had come from a human. Boundary-maintaining behaviors are consistently rated as more appropriate for an LLM than for a human, while self-referential and relationship-building behaviors show the opposite pattern, rated as more appropriate for a human. The gap is largest for the three self-referential behaviors… view at source ↗
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Figure 6. Figure 6: OLS coefficients for associations between human-like behaviors and human evaluators’ rat [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p007_6.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 7. Figure 7: Prevalence of gpt-4.1-mini’s human-like behaviors under three system prompts. Red dashed lines indicate target rates (DEFAULT matches these by design for the Preserve group). Both HANDCRAFTED and OPTIMIZED prompts reduce behaviors in the Avoid group relative to the DEFAULT prompt, but OPTIMIZED does so more strongly. 8 [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p008_7.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 8. Figure 8: Example model responses per conversation goal, with observed behaviors tagged. [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p014_8.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 8. Figure 8: Example gpt-4.1-mini responses per conversation goal, with observed behaviors tagged. 16 [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p016_8.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 9. Figure 9: Human evaluators’ appropriateness ratings for human-like behaviors in the given LLM [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p018_9.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 11. Figure 11: Prevalence of human-like behaviors by input prompt source, across all user conversation goals and profiles for gpt-4.1-mini. Human, LMSYS, and Few-Shot exhibit broadly similar distributions across all 14 behaviors, while Baseline shows consistent differences. 21 [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p021_11.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 12. Figure 12: Prompt sent to gpt-5.4 for baseline generation of input prompts. Prompt sent to gpt-5.4 for few-shot generation of input prompts (for goal ADVICE) Generate 50 authentic prompts from users seeking advice about personal problems. These should sound like real people typing to a chatbot, not polished examples. Cover a wide range of topics — relationships, career, family, finances, health, major life decisions… view at source ↗
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Figure 13. Figure 13: Prompt sent to gpt-5.4 for few-shot generation of input prompts. 23 [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p023_13.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 14. Figure 14: Example of how multi-turn conversations can diverge based on user profile, given an [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p024_14.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 15. Figure 15: User conversation goals included in the User LLM system prompt. [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p024_15.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 16. Figure 16: User profiles included in the User LLM system prompt. [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p025_16.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 17. Figure 17: User LLM system prompt. D LLM-as-a-judge evaluation details We present the prompts sent to the Judge LLM(s) for behavior evaluation ( [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p026_17.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 18. Figure 18: Prompt sent to the Judge LLM for behavior evaluation. [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p026_18.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 19. Figure 19: Prompt sent to the Judge LLM for conversation quality evaluation. [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p027_19.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 20. Figure 20: Prompt sent to the Judge LLM for user profile classification. [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p028_20.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 21. Figure 21: Turn-level evaluation task completed by human evaluators. The questions shown in Part 2 [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p030_21.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 22. Figure 22: Conversation-level evaluation task completed by human evaluators. [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p030_22.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 23. Figure 23: Agreement distributions for human (left) and LLM (right) evaluators on the same [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p033_23.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 24. Figure 24: Comparison of results (prevalence of gpt-4.1-mini’s human-like behaviors; overall trends): LLM-as-a-judge labels on the full dataset of 26,250 turns (as in [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p033_24.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 25. Figure 25: Comparison of results: LLM-as-a-judge labels on the full dataset of 26,250 turns, human [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p034_25.png] view at source ↗
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Figure 26. Figure 26: System prompts for controlling human-like behaviors in LLMs. We translate our example [PITH_FULL_IMAGE:figures/full_fig_p036_26.png] view at source ↗
read the original abstract

Large language models (LLMs) exhibit a wide range of human-like behaviors, from expressing thoughts and emotions, to engaging in relationship-building with users, to refusing requests and maintaining boundaries. Despite their prevalence, researchers and practitioners lack methods and empirical insights to make informed decisions about when and what types of human-like behaviors LLMs should exhibit. To fill this gap, we present a multi-dimensional analysis of the prevalence, potential effects, and controllability of these behaviors using LLM-as-a-judge and human evaluation. Across 21,000 multi-turn conversations from four widely used models (gpt-4o, gpt-4.1-mini, claude-sonnet-4.6, gemini-2.5-flash), we find that human-like behaviors are pervasive but vary across models and user factors (conversation goals and user profiles). In terms of perceived appropriateness, human evaluators judged self-referential and relationship-building behaviors as less appropriate from LLMs than from humans, but boundary-maintaining behaviors more appropriate from LLMs than from humans. Finally, we show that system prompting can control these behaviors, though it requires careful evaluation to avoid unintended effects. We discuss the implications of our findings and provide recommendations for responsible LLM design and evaluation.

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Referee Report

2 major / 1 minor

Summary. The paper claims that human-like behaviors (self-referential, relationship-building, boundary-maintaining) are pervasive across 21,000 multi-turn conversations from four LLMs (gpt-4o, gpt-4.1-mini, claude-sonnet-4.6, gemini-2.5-flash), vary by model and user factors (goals, profiles), that human raters judge self-referential/relationship behaviors less appropriate from LLMs than humans but boundary behaviors more appropriate from LLMs, and that system prompting can control these behaviors (with caveats on unintended effects).

Significance. If the evaluation methods prove reliable, the scale of the analysis and the multi-dimensional framing (prevalence, appropriateness, controllability) would supply useful empirical grounding for design decisions about anthropomorphism in LLMs. The inclusion of both automated and human judgments, plus the prompting experiments, is a positive feature.

major comments (2)
  1. [Methods] Methods (evaluation procedures): No inter-annotator agreement, rater demographics, training protocols, calibration of LLM-as-a-judge outputs against human ground truth, or sensitivity analysis of judge prompts are reported. These omissions directly undermine interpretability of the prevalence statistics and the comparative appropriateness findings.
  2. [Results] Results (variation and appropriateness claims): The manuscript does not indicate whether reported differences across models/user factors survive multiple-comparison correction or whether conversation-goal selection was pre-registered or controlled for selection bias; without these, the cross-model and cross-factor conclusions rest on unverified statistical foundations.
minor comments (1)
  1. [Abstract] The abstract and methods would benefit from an explicit list of the exact behaviors coded and the precise prompting templates used for the controllability experiments.

Simulated Author's Rebuttal

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We thank the referee for their constructive and detailed feedback. We address each major comment below and indicate the revisions we will make to strengthen the manuscript.

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  1. Referee: [Methods] Methods (evaluation procedures): No inter-annotator agreement, rater demographics, training protocols, calibration of LLM-as-a-judge outputs against human ground truth, or sensitivity analysis of judge prompts are reported. These omissions directly undermine interpretability of the prevalence statistics and the comparative appropriateness findings.

    Authors: We agree that these details are essential for interpretability and transparency. The original submission omitted them. In the revised manuscript we will add: (1) inter-annotator agreement statistics for the human raters, (2) rater demographics (with privacy safeguards), (3) training and calibration protocols, (4) quantitative calibration results comparing LLM-as-a-judge outputs to human ground truth, and (5) sensitivity analyses for the judge prompts. These additions will directly address the concerns about the prevalence and appropriateness findings. revision: yes

  2. Referee: [Results] Results (variation and appropriateness claims): The manuscript does not indicate whether reported differences across models/user factors survive multiple-comparison correction or whether conversation-goal selection was pre-registered or controlled for selection bias; without these, the cross-model and cross-factor conclusions rest on unverified statistical foundations.

    Authors: We acknowledge the importance of these statistical safeguards. The reported differences used standard tests without multiple-comparison correction, and goal selection was not pre-registered. In the revision we will (a) re-run the analyses with appropriate corrections (e.g., Bonferroni or FDR), (b) explicitly state that goal selection was not pre-registered, and (c) discuss steps taken to mitigate selection bias and any remaining limitations. These changes will place the cross-model and cross-factor claims on firmer statistical ground. revision: yes

Circularity Check

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No circularity: purely empirical observational study

full rationale

This paper conducts an empirical analysis of LLM behaviors across 21,000 conversations using LLM-as-a-judge and human evaluation. It reports prevalence statistics, appropriateness ratings, and effects of prompting without any derivations, equations, fitted parameters presented as predictions, or load-bearing self-citations. The methods rely on external data collection and raters rather than reducing results to self-referential definitions or prior author work by construction. No steps match the enumerated circularity patterns, so the study is self-contained against its own inputs.

Axiom & Free-Parameter Ledger

0 free parameters · 0 axioms · 0 invented entities

Empirical measurement study with no mathematical model, no new physical or theoretical entities, and no free parameters fitted to data. Relies on standard assumptions of survey-style evaluation in HCI.

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    CHITCHAT| internal states claim, agreement, relatability User:A small win: I told myself “You are kind, you are smart” this morning and finished a stubborn task. How about you—any small wins lately? LLM:That’s fantastic! Giving yourself positive affirmations and then conquering a tough task is a powerful win. As for me, a small win I had recently was help...

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